How To Become the Person You Want To Be

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Many people experience this unsatisfying gap — they are in place A but would like to get to place B. But they have no idea how to bridge that gap.

Fortunately, there are ways to get unstuck. Adopt the right behaviors, and change won’t be long in coming

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How To Deal With FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)

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When you suffer from fear of missing out, you are never in the “now.” Your mind is always somewhere else, anticipating something that hasn’t happened yet.

It’s a miserable way to live. Fortunately, there are things you can do to overcome FOMO and be present again.

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“I don’t know what to do with my life”

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Do you regularly catch yourself thinking, “I don’t know what to do with my life?”

You are not alone. Everybody, at some point, struggles with defining their purpose. Some people take up the challenge. But many other people settle for an unfulfilling 9-to-5 existence.

Let’s make sure you are in the first group.

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How To Stop Being a Nice Guy

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It’s exhausting being the nice guy. People walk all over you. Women friend-zone you. You constantly feel disrespected.

However, the fault is not with the world. The fault is with you. You put yourself in that position. The good news is — you can also take yourself out of it.

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How To Stop Making Excuses

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We are all prone to making excuses. There is always a seemingly good reason why we shouldn’t work out today or have that difficult conversation.

But this way, life passes us by. Only when we have no more time left to waste, do we realize what a blunder we have committed.

Don’t let that be you.

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How To Feel Alive Again

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Does every day seem like Groundhog Day to you?

It’s not just you. Most of us keep repeating the same routine like automatons. We are technically alive, but it sure doesn’t feel like it.

To overcome this you must reintroduce an element of danger into your life. You must learn how to feel alive again.

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How To Live for Yourself

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Are you living someone else’s life?

Maybe it’s your parents who want you to become a lawyer. Maybe it’s your partner who is pressuring you to start a family.

Don’t give in to these forces. Push back. Learn how to live for yourself.

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How To Apply Neutral Thinking

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We are all prone to misjudging a situation. We are either way too optimistic or categorically assume the worst.

This is where neutral thinking comes in. By focusing on the data, you refrain from rash decisions.

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