Do you regularly catch yourself thinking, “Why do I suck at everything?”
There are two ways you can go about this.
You can either tell yourself that you are being too hard on yourself (like most people do). Or you can find the root cause.
Do you regularly catch yourself thinking, “Why do I suck at everything?”
There are two ways you can go about this.
You can either tell yourself that you are being too hard on yourself (like most people do). Or you can find the root cause.
We sometimes get the nagging feeling that we are not paying enough attention to a particular area of our lives. Something is out of balance.
Maybe you are not getting enough exercise. Or you are not spending enough time with close friends. Perhaps you are stuck careerwise.
To solve this, we must first get an overview. What areas of life should we concern ourselves with? Also, how many different areas can we realistically juggle?
Do you regularly ask yourself, “Why am I so quiet?”
There are various reasons for not speaking up around other people, some of which you might not be aware of.
The good news is — if you want to, you can change. You can learn certain techniques to easily connect with other people.
Our lives have too many moving parts.
First, there are all the things you should be doing. Work hard. Pay attention to your family. Exercise regularly. Volunteer.
Then there is the myriad of distractions around us. Social media. Video games. Netflix. Online porn. Consumerism.
Between duties and time wasters, we have no space to ourselves. It makes us yearn for a life of simplicity.
Many men feel disoriented these days. Gender roles that for millennia defined how we act, have been retired overnight.
Yet, in the sexual marketplace, being overly feminine won’t get you far. Masculine-acting men are still in high demand, maybe more so than before.
So, what should you do?
When you exude quiet confidence, you are sure in yourself, without flaunting it.
This poise will attract others to you. They will sense there is more to be discovered. It will make you appear a touch mysterious.
Are you the master of your own time?
Most people are not. They have to work set hours, can only take certain days off, and get a limited amount of vacation time each year.
They lack freedom of time. Their employer decides how they structure their day, not them.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Most of us have a dream that we are too afraid to pursue.
The question, “What would you do if you knew you could not fail?” is meant to bring that dream out in the open.
It’s a powerful thought experiment that can help you turn your life around. It’s also a bit scary.
Most people, when faced with a challenge, will give up. They will blame their bad luck and move on to something else.
But a few people will turn a challenge into an opportunity. By reframing the situation, they will succeed where others failed.
Mindset is everything. To get what you want, you must equip yourself with better mental models.
Are you considering giving polyamory a try?
Then you should think about the pros and cons of polyamory first before you get into something you might come to regret.